maybe you wrote the lyrics to “nothing can come between us” in a love letter to your 8th grade boyfriend or perhaps you fondly recall the details of your first real passion in college, set to the opus that was love deluxe in the early aughts, you may have been promising to commit to your first adult relationship like a lovers rock and if and when love proved as mysterious as sade herself, maybe you found a welcome reminder of your own strength in soldier of love